The first day of my new school .I enter my classroom "8 A" .The board outside my class said so.Just took a glance through my classmates,they all were in groups excepting for a girl and a boy .They were sitting on the third last bench. The only ones who did not care that a new student had entered their classroom .They were busy talking to each other .I went towards them and said "hi" to the girl .She said "hello" and ignored me .I tried again .This time she asked "You seem to be new to class" and the ice broke between us.Soon i was friends with them.
Time passed 8th std was over.Through the time i saw them being happy together ,sad together.If something would go wrong with one of them ,i could see that worried expression on the other's face also. I was also their friend but could never feel what they felt for each other .I knew i had a place of mine in both of their lives.We would hang out together ,go for movies and have fun.That was my only part in their life.I still remember how our days were spent.We met at school ,after our school was over went home and again met in the evening to play.This went on for the next two years.
Standard 10th got over .She came as usual at 6:30 in the evening ,dressed in the same way wearing a pair of blue jeans and a T-shirt .And she broke the news one evening pretending to be normal but i knew how sad she was from inside ."Guys my dads being transfered to Lucknow ,so i am leaving next week".I still cant forget that day.I was not happy to hear that ,but it did not make me sad either.I looked at him he did not change his expression.He just said casually "Really,so you going to Lucknow" and craked a silly joke after that.And we spent that evening casually as if nothing really happened.A week passed ,and the day came when she was leaving.We went to her place to say good bye.I Hugged her and i cried ,she also cried.He was standing next to us and again just passed a joke thet we girls are so sissy and she left.
It was 11th standard's first day .Now i was his partner in class now .We used to talk as usual about missing her,how stupid she is and everything.The school would get over like this.Initially we missed her alot .More than me he did.He was emotionally lonely. I could realise that ,i could see that emptyness in his eyes.He never shared anything with me,i neither tried to ask also because i knew whom he would talk to. I knew i couuld not take that place in his life. And after a certain time i did not miss her and neither did he do.All three of us made new friends.But there was one thing which was still constant ,their relationship.Time kept passing.We entered college.
He fell in love with a girl.The first person who came to know about it was 'she'. She found the man of her dreams and he helped her to woo that guy. He told her everything whatever happened in his life and vice versa.He got his first job and he sends a gift for her.I just could not beleive that there were friends in this world who loved each other so much,cared for each other,cried together,laughed together and valued each other so much despite staying in different cities and having different lives.I believe every person has a place for him/her in a person's life and no one can replace anyone.
Its been 8 years now,Everything has changed ,I am married ,he has married the same girl and she has also married that geek ,but one thing has still not changed ,their realtionship.All these years I didnt resent their friendship,but i wish i was a part of it.They live in different countries but that love ,respect and their friendship is still intact.That purity in their relationship can still be seen at the first sight!!!
Saturday, October 31, 2009
Monday, August 3, 2009
Happy Friendships day
2nd aug 2009
Its a sunday+friendship day.
At 12 in the night , my phone inbox is pouring with happy friendships day messages.
From my best friends to acquintances.And in my mind i think that its kiddish to celebrate friendship day and i go off to sleep.
Next morning i get up and a guy is standing at my door with flowers in his hand.SHILPI SENT ME THOSE FLOWERS.And this really changed my mind of the whole" not celebrating friendship day " thing.I guess these days are made to make people happy and make them feel special.Thanx a lot for making me realise this shilpi!!
So after that i go out have fun with friends ,come back.
And one more surprise Shiny calls me up after like 1 month and we speak about everything from our childhood days till whats happeneing now.
But one sad thing happened ,my bro was leaving for singapore and i could not meet him
Oh boy!! what a day.
But certainly this was one of my best friendships day!!!
Thanx to all my friends !!!
Its a sunday+friendship day.
At 12 in the night , my phone inbox is pouring with happy friendships day messages.
From my best friends to acquintances.And in my mind i think that its kiddish to celebrate friendship day and i go off to sleep.
Next morning i get up and a guy is standing at my door with flowers in his hand.SHILPI SENT ME THOSE FLOWERS.And this really changed my mind of the whole" not celebrating friendship day " thing.I guess these days are made to make people happy and make them feel special.Thanx a lot for making me realise this shilpi!!
So after that i go out have fun with friends ,come back.
And one more surprise Shiny calls me up after like 1 month and we speak about everything from our childhood days till whats happeneing now.
But one sad thing happened ,my bro was leaving for singapore and i could not meet him
Oh boy!! what a day.
But certainly this was one of my best friendships day!!!
Thanx to all my friends !!!
Saturday, August 1, 2009
31st july 2009
Its Boring. I am so bored with my monotonous life.Really dont know what to do?Its boring to have a stagnant life.The same college .The same teachers.
From teachers ,i recollected the first day of my semester.
The first lecture and i get scolded by this teacher who i wont name.
Her problem is that last semester i was talking on the phone and was caught by the lab assistant.
All the senior professors scolded her for me talking on the fone.And this teacher still has that grudge against me.
Please ya why cant people let go of things.Just wanna get stuck on one thing for the whole of their lives.Cant they realise that life can be so much better and easier if they will start having the capability to forgive people.Some people really need to grow up and have a life!!!
From teachers ,i recollected the first day of my semester.
The first lecture and i get scolded by this teacher who i wont name.
Her problem is that last semester i was talking on the phone and was caught by the lab assistant.
All the senior professors scolded her for me talking on the fone.And this teacher still has that grudge against me.
Please ya why cant people let go of things.Just wanna get stuck on one thing for the whole of their lives.Cant they realise that life can be so much better and easier if they will start having the capability to forgive people.Some people really need to grow up and have a life!!!
Saturday, June 27, 2009
The Chase
In my 22 years of life ,i have seen many things,understood and learnt a lot except one thing "The Chase".
"People will never value what they have". This is one thing which i havent understood.
Not every person ,but 90% of them(as in humans) would run behind something that they dont have..Be it any materialistic thing,any relationship,any person,a job etc ,etc. Its a very good thing to achieve something that you dont have ,but by not caring or disrespecting that already exists is wrong i guess.
I havent figured out the reason behind it . But i guess its human nature.The word for this kind of attitude is GREED. Everyone runs behind what they dont have and will forget about what they have.But there is a sad part to it,during this run they dont realise the importance of what they are loosing out on.
People take things for granted.Their attitude would be like."This is mine ,it wont go anywhere".
I wish it would be this way.Unfortunately,it isnt true.We realise only when ,the person is gone from our life or the relationship ends or the materialistic thing that we bought breaks or doesnt work any more.And then there is regret . There is a wish that it comes back,but it doesnt .The realisation happens after a very long time and its too late .
"People will never value what they have". This is one thing which i havent understood.
Not every person ,but 90% of them(as in humans) would run behind something that they dont have..Be it any materialistic thing,any relationship,any person,a job etc ,etc. Its a very good thing to achieve something that you dont have ,but by not caring or disrespecting that already exists is wrong i guess.
I havent figured out the reason behind it . But i guess its human nature.The word for this kind of attitude is GREED. Everyone runs behind what they dont have and will forget about what they have.But there is a sad part to it,during this run they dont realise the importance of what they are loosing out on.
People take things for granted.Their attitude would be like."This is mine ,it wont go anywhere".
I wish it would be this way.Unfortunately,it isnt true.We realise only when ,the person is gone from our life or the relationship ends or the materialistic thing that we bought breaks or doesnt work any more.And then there is regret . There is a wish that it comes back,but it doesnt .The realisation happens after a very long time and its too late .
Saturday, May 30, 2009
Life moves on...
I am writing something after a very long time.
Yesterday i was having a conversation with one of my friends,
and realised that how fast things ,time ,people and circumstances change.
We started comparing how different life was last year and this year.
How many people came in our lives and left .
But the important part is that they left. How many people you meet in life are actually going to stay with you throughout your life?The ratio would be of 1 on 100.
Every person that comes in your life has a phase excepting your parents(Because you cant choose them...lol).The rest of the people are chosen by you .
You learn from every person's existence.
I have actually had these phases of people in life - met different people ,learnt new things and the best part moved on with good and bad experiences.
Five years from now ,people who i was closest to hardly exist in my life.
Life has changed so much.
Best part about it is that everyone learns to adjust to this change.And people who dont want to adjust ,time teaches them to adjust.
No one can escape this change.There is only one thing that is constant in life and that is CHANGE.
The pace at which things change is also amazing.It takes maximum 2-3 days to get over something good or bad.
You are either very happy or very sad about something.But after 2-3 days that happiness or sadness becomes a part of your normal routine.Its just another thing.It can be anything -a materialistic or non- materialistic thing. Be it a new car, your new phone,your new bf/gf,new friend,new hangout place,your marriage or divorce, someone's death or someone's birth ,your failure or success in exams.
When you go to a new place to start something new,you are very excited.But after a week or so evrything is again normal.
The same morning,afternoon and evening.
But the things that have changed are the people and the surrounding.
A week back 'A' was the person who was the most important and now some 'B' is important.
A week back you were busy with project 'A' and now you are busy with project 'B'.
Thats life -It moves on with respect to everything.
Yesterday i was having a conversation with one of my friends,
and realised that how fast things ,time ,people and circumstances change.
We started comparing how different life was last year and this year.
How many people came in our lives and left .
But the important part is that they left. How many people you meet in life are actually going to stay with you throughout your life?The ratio would be of 1 on 100.
Every person that comes in your life has a phase excepting your parents(Because you cant choose them...lol).The rest of the people are chosen by you .
You learn from every person's existence.
I have actually had these phases of people in life - met different people ,learnt new things and the best part moved on with good and bad experiences.
Five years from now ,people who i was closest to hardly exist in my life.
Life has changed so much.
Best part about it is that everyone learns to adjust to this change.And people who dont want to adjust ,time teaches them to adjust.
No one can escape this change.There is only one thing that is constant in life and that is CHANGE.
The pace at which things change is also amazing.It takes maximum 2-3 days to get over something good or bad.
You are either very happy or very sad about something.But after 2-3 days that happiness or sadness becomes a part of your normal routine.Its just another thing.It can be anything -a materialistic or non- materialistic thing. Be it a new car, your new phone,your new bf/gf,new friend,new hangout place,your marriage or divorce, someone's death or someone's birth ,your failure or success in exams.
When you go to a new place to start something new,you are very excited.But after a week or so evrything is again normal.
The same morning,afternoon and evening.
But the things that have changed are the people and the surrounding.
A week back 'A' was the person who was the most important and now some 'B' is important.
A week back you were busy with project 'A' and now you are busy with project 'B'.
Thats life -It moves on with respect to everything.
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
happy new year
HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!
Okay now that its new year.I have taken some resolutions and i am going 2 stick 2 it.
Thank god !! that 2008 is over.It was not all that good.But i am starting my new year with a very positive attitude that this year is going to be very good fr me and my friends and I am very sure that it will be good.
So i am going to start my first day by raising a toast to the new year and as my exams are not over yet so have to study also.
So starting my new year with a positive attitude and a very big smile.
From my last year i would only thank my frnds and family fr being there for me!!
Okay now that its new year.I have taken some resolutions and i am going 2 stick 2 it.
Thank god !! that 2008 is over.It was not all that good.But i am starting my new year with a very positive attitude that this year is going to be very good fr me and my friends and I am very sure that it will be good.
So i am going to start my first day by raising a toast to the new year and as my exams are not over yet so have to study also.
So starting my new year with a positive attitude and a very big smile.
From my last year i would only thank my frnds and family fr being there for me!!
Tuesday, December 30, 2008
d evenin
i had hoped dat ma evevnin wud be gud & it was.It was cold out there.And d drive on ma scooty was an add on 2 it.Had hot & spicy wada sambhar in d cold wid shilpi.Its so much fun 2 have smthin hot 2 eat in d cold.Then frm dere went 2 our own everyday hang out CCD.Had a coffee and now i am at home preparing 2 study and thinking of a new year resolution
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