I am writing something after a very long time.
Yesterday i was having a conversation with one of my friends,
and realised that how fast things ,time ,people and circumstances change.
We started comparing how different life was last year and this year.
How many people came in our lives and left .
But the important part is that they left. How many people you meet in life are actually going to stay with you throughout your life?The ratio would be of 1 on 100.
Every person that comes in your life has a phase excepting your parents(Because you cant choose them...lol).The rest of the people are chosen by you .
You learn from every person's existence.
I have actually had these phases of people in life - met different people ,learnt new things and the best part moved on with good and bad experiences.
Five years from now ,people who i was closest to hardly exist in my life.
Life has changed so much.
Best part about it is that everyone learns to adjust to this change.And people who dont want to adjust ,time teaches them to adjust.
No one can escape this change.There is only one thing that is constant in life and that is CHANGE.
The pace at which things change is also amazing.It takes maximum 2-3 days to get over something good or bad.
You are either very happy or very sad about something.But after 2-3 days that happiness or sadness becomes a part of your normal routine.Its just another thing.It can be anything -a materialistic or non- materialistic thing. Be it a new car, your new phone,your new bf/gf,new friend,new hangout place,your marriage or divorce, someone's death or someone's birth ,your failure or success in exams.
When you go to a new place to start something new,you are very excited.But after a week or so evrything is again normal.
The same morning,afternoon and evening.
But the things that have changed are the people and the surrounding.
A week back 'A' was the person who was the most important and now some 'B' is important.
A week back you were busy with project 'A' and now you are busy with project 'B'.
Thats life -It moves on with respect to everything.
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It is one of those piece of writings that strike a chord in your heart! Naseem , you have put feelings into words! For God Sake, Continue writing..Because there are still some people,who will no matter what happens, want to know what you think, feel and do! And that includes me :) Lots of love!
ReplyDeleteYea girl ...the things u hv written i cud so relate myself to...i guess at this age n at this stage we are realizin tht all tht was in the past cannot continue to be with us the same way in the present...so here we are growin older n more shrude hearted....nice writing naseem ..your ma gurl (m) hi-fi ! :P k now chalo phutto aur padhai karo ..
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